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Thiccsparklebutt

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thiccsparklebutt, a 48 yr old, disabled, queer, Afro-Latina from California currently lost
somewhere in Georgia. When you first come to a thiccsparklebutt stream, you may think,
“This is just another stoner watching reality tv,
”But, like Shrek, she has layers like an onion. Using the
toxicity of reality tv, thicc tries to find the lesson on how to love one another better, which is the
focus of every stream. Helping soothe all kinds of different relationship traumas 1 laugh at a
time. Oh, she’s a poet too. Ask her about that! She likes talking about that

Water Your Garden
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April 7, 2026

Water Your Garden

Water Your Garden with ThiccSparkleButt: Leaving a Religious Doomsday Cult, Reclaiming Voice, and Naming Rape by Deception.Hecate of Finding OK talks with poet and Twitch streamer, ThiccSparkleButt, about her healing journey. Thicc talks about growing up in a doomsday religious cult and how it damaged her family relationships, established poor boundaries, stifled her identity, and lay the groundwork for patterns of abuse in her life. She shares her journey through abusive relationships, coercion and deception, claiming identity and autonomy, and finding support. Therapy (including EMDR) and supportive Twitch spaces helped her reclaim her voice, streaming, and creativity; it helped her improve boundaries, grieve lost friendships, and speak publicly about rape by deception. Thicc encourages survivors to remember that healing isn’t linear, and to remember to “water your garden”.TW/CW: Religious trauma, cults, suicide, abuse, PTSD, sexual assault, coercion and deception, substance…