Finding OK

Finding OK

An intersectional healing podcast for survivors of sexual assault and any/all abuse. When survivors share, they share strength. "Finding OK" helps people navigate this difficult healing process. The focus is on recovery, self-care, empowerment, and healing. You are not alone.

Recent Episodes

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Assaulted and Stalked Abroad - A Personal Story

Aug. 3, 2022

In 2006 I was assaulted and stalked by a monk in India. In this episode I share my journal entries recording this experience and then discuss the ways this trauma has affected my life. I discuss the intersecting issues of ra…

Guest Interviews

Then and Now

July 19, 2022

In this episode my friend Sage and I listen to audio we recorded two years ago during lockdown and reflect on it. We talk about (and feel our way through) some of the very intense systemic issues we're facing in America and …

Guest: Sage
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This Was Slightly Less On Fire When I Left...

July 6, 2022

We're back! In this episode I'll be sharing what I've been up to on my break, what I have planned for this season of the podcast, and I'll be talking about a really rough day I had last week in the wake of Roe vs Wade being …

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Gratitude and Updates

Feb. 24, 2022

This is the last episode of Season 3! Today I'll be taking some time to thank everyone who made this season possible, updating you about my plans and exciting new content during my break, as well as letting you know about so…

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Letters for the Fire

Feb. 2, 2022

Earlier in Season 3 I invited listeners to participate in a project called Letters for the Fire. It was an invitation for communal catharsis and healing. I invited listeners to write a letter to their rapist or abuser, and I…

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The Assault I Don't Discuss - A Personal Story

Jan. 21, 2022

In this episode I share my experience of anal rape, discuss the dangerous myth that boys/men/AMAB people can't control themselves, discuss consent, and talk about some of the reasons why it was so difficult for me to identif…

Recent Blog Posts

letters for the fire

Letters for the Fire is a listener participation project. I am inviting survivors to write a letter to their rapist or abuser and then send it to me.


Finding OK is having its very first GIVEAWAY! The winner will receive a personalized, signed copy of Denise Bossarte's beautiful book, "Thriving After Se…

Letters for the Fire

This is a listener participation project that will be available during Season 3. I am inviting survivors to write a letter to their r*pist or abuser and …